Boys under the age of 18 are the most common group to be caught carrying a knife here in South Yorkshire.

Many of these young people believe carrying a knife is normal or necessary, either for their own protection or to gain status with their peers. But if they pull out a weapon, all it takes is a matter of seconds for a disagreement to become something much more serious.

It may not feel like it sometimes, but what you say and feel is important to your child. We believe that, with the right support, parents can really make a difference when it comes to changing attitudes to violence and knife carrying.

• Do your research

  They may think you don’t know enough or understand the subject, so preparation is key. Try to stick to facts rather than opinions. Start by reading the FAQs here.



• Choose a good time & place

  Make sure there’s plenty of time to talk. Somewhere quiet and private is best, where there won’t be distractions.



• Listen

  Give them plenty of opportunity to say how they feel. How do they feel when people talk about knife crime? Are they scared? Are they angry? Be patient & encourage them to share their feelings with you. Try not to react if they tell you something that shocks or upsets you.



• Show you care

  If they were caught with a knife or involved in violence, how would it make you feel?

  How would you feel if something happened to them?



• Keep it real

  bring in personal experiences and recent local news.



• Be positive

  reassure them that most people don’t carry knives.

The legal stuff

• It is illegal to carry a knife in public (even if you don’t use it)
• 'Self-protection' will not be accepted as a valid excuse
• Police can stop & search anyone for weapons

Did you know that…?

• Even a minor wound can be fatal if it gets infected
• Many victims are actually stabbed with their own knife